If Only Laughter Was the Best Medicine

The topic for this week’s Marketing for Romance Writer’s 52-week Blog Hop is Life Lessons in My Book. Initially, the thought of a life lesson brought forth images of a deep meaningful message like that usually portrayed in a women’s fiction novel. Granted, I often get into the mood to immerse myself in such a serious read, but as you may notice, most of my books fall in the a little less than serious side. Although there are some life lessons that inevitably leak into my stories and most of these lessons can be applied to everyday, serious and shudder normal non-magical life.

Normal is overrated

Everyone is a little bit crazy. Trust me, you might think you’re the most normal person in the world and there’s probably someone out there who thinks you might be a little bit weird. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. In fact, that’s awesome. That’s what makes you more than a carbon copy of everyone else.

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My heroines fly their freak flags with pride while discovering theirs, and everyone else’s, little bit of super power.

Family Matters

Family isn’t always defined by blood. It’s the people you consider your posse. The one’s who’ve got your back through good times and bad. Even if they might be a bunch of oddballs you love them anyway because they embrace (or at least tolerate) all your weird habits, idiosyncrasies and temper tantrums. They’re the ones you can be your authentic self with because love soothes the savage beast. Whether it’s the stubborn alpha male, or your annoying sibling, turn the other cheek or maybe give them a hug. (Hugs make everything better.)

Don’t Forget your Four-Legged Family

Scruff is happy to be included as a life lessons. He loves to give unsolicited advice.

Granted this could be interpreted as a shifter, or other paranormal being in a book, but in this instance, I’m referring to pets. Just about every story I write has one because as someone who’s shared a home with more than one four-legged fur baby over the years, I’ve come to appreciate many benefits even outside of their irresistible personality and stress-relieving benefits. They also make a great secondary character in a story (and a cute, yet sometimes cantankerous, writing assistant).

Who’s Laughing Now?

I hope it’s you that’s laughing—even if it’s at yourself. Laughter plays a

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key part in my books in defining personalities, mending fences and making the best of a difficult situation.

Whether it’s in my light hearted paranormal, or my dark fantasies, I always love finding the humor in everyday situations. Not taking anything too seriously can save you a few wrinkles and grey hair.


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Find the Magic

In everything. Look a little closer at the world around you and the people with whom you share it. Everyone comes with their own special kind of magic – embrace it.

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9 thoughts on “If Only Laughter Was the Best Medicine”

  1. Robin MichaelaRobin Michaela

    You’re right – we all need to laugh more and embrace the magic within us. Inspiring post!

  2. Alicia PearceAlicia Pearce

    More laughter and hugs… Sounds like a great idea!!

  3. Meka JamesMeka James

    The pets is fun. I’m a dog lover, but for a fun twist I gave my MMC a dog allergy, so no pet for him. LOL The lessons don’t have to be big or life changing and I like that yours are just that. Simple facts of everyday life. Perfect. 🙂

  4. Ed HoornaertEd Hoornaert

    It’s always seemed cockeyed to me that comedy isn’t considered as important as serious literature. Give me someone who can laugh at their problems, or at least get us to laugh at this ridiculous thing we call life.

  5. MaureenMaureen

    I appreciate all the wonderful visits! I apologize I’m a bit behind in replying and visiting-I’m traveling but didn’t want to miss the weekly blog. 😊

  6. Kenzie MichaelsKenzie Michaels

    Love the line ‘family isn’t determined by blood; it’s by posse’. That’s soooo how my family operates….several of my kids’ friends have busy parents, and since I’m home nearly all the time, they’ve ‘adopted’ me. They come to me with issues, they eat dinner with us at times, and yes, I’ve theoretically kicked their butts when they needed it.

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